Hi folks!
Welcome to a bright shiny new year- all for you! Now, what are you going to do with it?…
Let’s talk about New Year’s resolutions…
As you may know from reading previous posts, I believe that each and every one of us has something we’re here to do, a gift special and unique to us, something we bring to the party of life that no one else can bring.
A calling, if you will…
Unfortunately, many of us don’t discover what our gift is. Many more find that gift but doubt themselves so much that they kill their dreams (“who am I to think I’m so special?..”). Still others love their gifts but somehow can never find the time to make their dreams reality.
Here’s where resolutions ( New Year, birthday or second Tuesday in March) can help….
The classic take on New Year’s resolutions is that of theoretical goals that you mean to follow-through on but will actually never complete.
For instance:
- You resolve to lose weight.
- You buy a gym membership.
- You go 4 days the first week.
- You go 3 days the second week.
- One time the third…
- And never again.
What I’ve found more useful is to choose projects I want to complete or areas I want to improve in the coming year.
For instance:
- Self-publish a book on palmistry.
- Improve my personal health and stamina.
- Develop more classes to teach.
- Become a better writer.
- Strengthen my relationships with family and friends.
You get the idea.
Once I have my targets, I make a list of things that I can do to move forwards in each area. These can be big things, like taking a series of classes, but a lot of times, I find breaking things into baby steps, like making a phone call or painting for 10 minutes actually makes it more likely that I’ll actually complete them (this is a technique called Kaizen, that I’ll get into in more detail in the future.)
The final starting step is to figure how much time I’m prepared to commit on a regular basis to make my dreams come true:
- One hour a day?
- Two hours a week?
- 15 minutes a day?
Most people believe that it takes a major time commitment and sacrifice in all other areas of their lives to make their dreams a reality. Putting a majority of your time into your dreams does move them along faster, but the interesting thing is that a regular commitment of even small amounts of time can change your life in a major way.
So, giving a half an hour twice a week to your gift instead of t.v., extra naps, or surfing the net can make your dreams reality far sooner than you might realize.
(Don’t get me wrong- I love t.v., naps and surfing. It’s just that the secret to happiness is often about prioritizing my dreams 🙂 )
Resolutions are only the beginning. I’m going to be doing a series of posts on psychological, metaphysical, and personal development ways to make your dreams real..
But, if you’re starting on a journey of transformation, the first thing you need to know is where you want to go.
So,what would you like to do this year?
More soon…
Catherine
Foresight
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