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When we talk about a bad or abusive relationship, we tend to think about romantic partners, but there’s more to it than that.

An abusive relationship can be

  • Parent/child
  • other family members
  • Boss
  • Co-workers
  • Classmates

Any relationship where one person uses words or deeds to hurt another one for reasons such as control, feeling powerful or other things can be an abusive relationships

Many years ago, I worked for a very bad boss. I knew that it was unpleasant, indeed awful to work with her, but one day I had an “a-ha” moment. I thought “She is constantly criticizing me, lying to and about me, creating situations where I cannot succeed and then punishing me when I fail. She engages in meaningless activities designed to show me that she has power and I do not (such as giving me a list of things to do that are impossible in the time available and then making me stand and wait while she makes phone calls before I can get started.) She does everything she can to make me feel small, powerless and incompetent.”

The “a-ha” moment for me was that I realized that, if this was a marriage as opposed to a work relationship, there would be no question that this was an abusive relationship.

And I got out soon after.

And that’s when the work begins…

*Note- Being in or ending a bad or abusive relationship can leave you with physical, mental, emotional and spiritual damage which you need to deal with. Since this is not a “one size fits all universe”, everybody will have different things they need to heal and recover.

If you need medical treatment, or counselling, or medication, I’d encourage you to get what you need, just as I’d encourage you to try alternative health approaches or self esteem builders. Remember to find what works for you, and then make sure that you do what you need to heal on an ongoing basis.

Take care of yourself- you deserve it.*

Catherine

Foresight

2/27/14

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For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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It was an interesting weekend…

We were off at Wicked  Faire, doing readings, selling books, people watching and having a good time as usual- and as the weekend went on, I started to notice a theme developing.

Every little while, someone would stop in to see me- some people I knew and some I didn’t know. And, one by one, they all said that they’d stopped in to thank me.  Thank me for something I’d said or something I’d done that had made a difference in their lives, or in the lives of people that they cared about. Some  talked about things that had happened this weekend and some about things that went back over a series of years.

Wow.  By Saturday noon, I was blushing like mad. I know that I try my best to be of service where ever I’m at, but this weekend really brought home to me that what I try to do does indeed matter in the lives of folks around me.

Been thinking about this a lot, and have come away with two things. First, that planting a little seed of kindness can make something beautiful grow in the world, and second, how important it is to thank the folks that have made my life a better place.

Thank you for reading. More is on the way…

Catherine

Foresight

2/25/14

www.ForesightYourPsychic.com

www.ForesightYourCTPsychic.wordpress.com

For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

Eleanor Roosevelt

from Foresight

2/24/14

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For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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There’s only a few days left before Wicked Winter’s Renaissance Faire on February 21st to 23rd in Somerset, New Jersey.

The psychics of Foresight will be there, doing Reiki and readings by tarot, palm, runes, I Ching, intuition and dowsing. We’ll also be selling copies of Catherine’s books as well as enjoying the amazing people and experiences you find at a Jeff Mach event.

Want more information on this adult event? Then click here

And we hope to see you at Wicked Faire

Catherine

Foresight

2/20/14

www.foresightyourpsychic.com

www.ForesightYourCTPsychic.wordpress.com

For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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I was on a podcast last week and, given that it was the week before Valentine’s Day, we were talking about love and what builds loving relationships

And then we got a caller on who asked “What do you do to learn to love yourself after you’ve gotten out of a bad relationship?”

Wow.

That’s a really important question.

I did what I could to give her some ideas that might help, but there’s only so much that you can do in 20 minutes or so; and that’s a really important skill set that a lot of us need at some point in our lives- so I’m going to do a series on metaphysical and alt health options to start rebuilding her self esteem after ending a bad relationship here.

Hope that you never have to use this info, but if, at some point, you do, I hope that you find something that works for you.

More coming on this soon.

*Note- Being in or ending a bad or abusive relationship can leave you with physical, mental, emotional and spiritual damage which you need to deal with. Since this is not a “one size fits all universe”, everybody will have different things they need to heal and recover.

If you need medical treatment, or counselling, or medication, I’d encourage you to get what you need, just as I’d encourage you to try alternative health approaches or self esteem builders. Remember to find what works for you, and then make sure that you do what you need to heal on an ongoing basis.

Take care of yourself- you deserve it.*

Catherine

Foresight

2/18/14

www.foresightyourpsychic.com

www.ForesightYourCTPsychic.wordpress.com

For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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“There are those who look at things the way they are, and ask why…

I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?”

Robert Kennedy

from Foresight

2/17/14

www.foresightyourpsychic.com

www.ForesightYourCTPsychic.wordpress.com

For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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Opening Chakras

There are many ways of opening the body’s energy centers (called Chakras in Sanskrit ).  I prefer to place a Carbon included Herkimer  Diamond on the chakra . Note, a Herkimer Diamond is a form of Quartz.
Till next week,
Starwolf 02/16/2014

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It’s Winter, and for many of us, that’s time to nest- to huddle indoors sheltered from the winter’s blast.

Life gets slower, sleepier, quieter….

But not now…

Once again, in a little over a week, the Wicked Winter Faire sweeps into the world, a bundle of color and sound and amazement. Its a renn faire/ con/ celebration and that still isn’t adequate to describe it

To learn more, you’ll just have to click here

There’s magic and music and costume and color and games and marvels. And great shopping, of course.

Including the psychics of Foresight.

And, hopefully, there’ll be you.

The Wicked Winter Faire appears February 21-23, at the Doubletree of Somerset hotel in Somerset, NJ. For more details, please click here and ramble around to see what Wicked has to offer you.

And we hope to see you there.

Catherine

Foresight

2/13/14

www.foresightyourpsychic.com

www.ForesightYourCTPsychic.wordpress.com

For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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Last call – tomorrow night (2/12/14), I’ll be  appearing from 8-9 on the New Normal with Tchipakkan on http://liveparanormal.com

Love is in the air. What’s the best thing you can do to have a long and loving relationship? Learn how to love and nurture yourself.

The popular media would have you believe that you only have two choices- to be a selfish diva who uses everyone, or else a needy, self- sacrificing martyr, who turns him or herself into a doormat for the people around to wipe their feet on.

I’m here to tell you there’s a middle path- one where you take responsibility for your own happiness. When you do this, energetically and psychologically, you become an equal partner in your relationship and the relationship is healthier, happier and longer in the process.

Want to catch my interview, call in with questions or be part of the live chat happening during every show?

If you just want to listen, you can go to the above site, click the “Listen Live and Chat” listing under the “radio-listen/chat room” heading, and click “LISTEN HERE” next to “the New Normal”.

If you want to chat, you’ll need to go to the top of the home page on the extreme right and click “Join” to set up a personal account (it’s free but takes a few moments, so you might want to do this in advance)

There are provisions for listeners to phone in with questions, too.

And, if you can’t tune in at that time, Live Paranormal.com archives its shows for your listening at a time convenient to you.

Hope you can join me tomorrow night from 8-9 at the New Normal on liveparanormal.com

Catherine

Foresight

2/11/14

www.foresightyourpsychic.com

www.ForesightYourCTPsychic.wordpress.com

For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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“To all the other dreamers out there, don’t ever stop or let the world’s negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and the right people, anything is possible.”

Adam Green

from Foresight

2/10/14

www.foresightyourpsychic.com

www.ForesightYourCTPsychic.wordpress.com

For more information on Catherine’s books, “Adventures in Palmistry”, “The Practical Empath – Surviving and Thriving as a Psychic Empath”, “Manifesting Something Better” her urban fantasy “The Lands That Lie Between”  and her new book “The Psychic Power of Your Dreams”, all from Foresight Publications, click here

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